Now is all we have, don't wait.

Most days we all gallop along at breakneck speed attempting to keep the basic order of our lives in place. Normalcy is a lullaby that rocks us into believing that we are in control, that our calendar dictates what will happen, and makes small annoyances seem bigger than life.

But for each of us there are moments when the solid ground we have built our reality on gets rocked. The earthquakes vary in size and impact, but I feel each has something to teach me. This last Friday my Issaquah family experienced a very sudden and heartbreaking life earthquake.

A dear friend of so many people that her reach is beyond comprehension, passed away quite suddenly. I saw her on Thursday morning full of the lively spark she always emitted. 24 hours later she was no longer with us. Our brief 3 minute conversation full of giggles and mutual love will remain a gem in my pocket whenever the sadness rears ups and my eyes well with tears.

Life can change in an instant. And as I have been reflecting on this change, I realize I have so many questions for her. I wanted to hear her opinion and get her advice on a large list of items--I thought I had plenty of time. I am also acutely aware of how grateful I am to the incredible friends and family in my life.

Speak up and tell people you love them or thank you for being in your life. Take the time to get together. Cherish one another.